Our attitude towards money has big effect on how much money we attract. In the years that I’ve spent in the financial services industry, I’ve sat down with more than a thousand people, one on one.
I would normally begin to talk about what’s important to them and what goals and dreams they have so we can develop a plan to accomplish them. And often when asking questions about their dreams and what they would like to have, I would hear remarks such as:
Money isn’t everything or You don’t need money to be happy or We’ll never be able to do that, I don’t want to be rich, I’m not greedy I don’t need much.
Sometimes I would suggest certain things as possibly their goals, and I could see that it’s something they want, and they even express it, BUT I would hear - Like I’ll ever be able to afford that, would slip out.
How often do we make those statements without even noticing. Some maybe be not as obvious, and may not even be spoken out loud, but do you ever have thoughts or say to your self I can’t afford this, I’ll never be able to afford this, I don’t really need this it’s too big or too flashy, It’s too expensive . . .
Without realizing, unconsciously this type of conversation goes on in most people’s had. And since like attracts like, more of the same thoughts and being attracted, and then planted as BELIEFS in their subconscious. And it’s these thoughts, ideas, and beliefs that vibrate inside, on a subconscious level and attract the circumstances and the things into their life that are in harmony with these beliefs.
It’s not just with money, it works the same with everything.
I have a relative that believes, that he’s UNLUCKY. I know that, because he states it all the time. Now he doesn’t come out and say that he’s unlucky, but he always says things like, If I go there, they’ll be out of it, that’s just my luck. You know a person with my last name, their just waiting to screw something up. If they never had a disaster, once I show up they will. People like us can’t do that.
The thing is he doesn’t say it in this obviously negative tone. He smiles and jokes about it, thinking it’s funny, but these thoughts actually create the very circumstances he talks about. He actually does attract all these things to him. By speaking these words, he can’t help but think these thoughts and create the feelings that go along with them, attracting more of the same.
I talked to him about it, but he just smiles and says oh I know, I’m just joking, but is he?
The law of attraction doesn’t understand jokes, or for that matter anything other than what we feel and vibrate. Your subconscious mind cannot reject ideas, you repeat thoughts and ideas enough times, and they get rooted deep into the subconscious, even if they’re not true. But they become true for you. And now your subconscious mind goes to work to manifest those thoughts and ideas.
So become aware of what goes on in your head, and what kind of thoughts are you allowing to dominate. Next time you see something expensive that you want, notice what you’re thinking and more importantly FEELING in that moment. And take action. Be proactive, and start replacing those thoughts with what you want to have.
These thought patters are habitual. Change your habit of thinking thoughts like these, and you change how you feel, which changes your attitude and what you vibrate, and ultimately what you attract into your life.
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