November 26th, 2008 Vitaly Grinblat
I want to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving, as we’re celebrating it tomorrow in U.S. And for all are friends around the globe I would like you to still take a moment and find something be thankful for.
It is such an important component of attracting the things you want in your life.
In our society today, people are so busy, driven to get more, that sometimes we forget to stop and count our blessings.
There’s a saying that if you find things to be thankful for, you’ll have more things to be thankful for.
Here’s a little project my 6 year old brought from school today.
Isn’t it fantastic.
And she was so excited when she read it to me.
Now what if you make a list of things that they’re thankful for… how would that make you feel?
What if you do it daily?
Remember, we attract based on how feel, and this is a great little routine you can start and everyday can be Thanksgiving for you.
Take a moment today and send thanks and a feeling of gratitude for what you have and watch miracles unfold.
Wishing lots of success and prosperity.
Vitaly
October 15th, 2008 Vitaly Grinblat
I’d like to confess about something that I haven’t really discussed with most people since I’ve entered the world of online marketing.
I have a huge UNFAIR ADVANTAGE over most people.
You see to make money online, offline, in any kind of a business you have to SELL something to someone.
I know that you know that, however the reality is that most people have never sold anything in their life and even though some think there’s nothing to it, I beg to differ.
Today, more so than ever before people are busy with their lives and are pretty much immune to most advertising that surrounds them. We get hit with so many advertising messages per day that we become numb to them, UNLESS something jumps out and catches our attention…
But even then, UNLESS it’s so compelling, emotionally provoking, and is in tune with what our core beliefs and values are, while providing a solution that we’re seeking… it’s a wasted effort.
So why do I have an unfair advantage? Read the rest of this entry »
September 5th, 2008 Vitaly Grinblat
You have less than 120 days left in this year, and it’s January 1st 2009.
Sounds like from a fiction movie.
Anyways, where’d the time go? Remember all those New Years resolutions you’ve made in what seems like last week?
So how are you doing with them?
You see, I’ve noticed an interesting thing over the years working with people. Everybody sets big goals in January. They’re going to conquer the world. They will double, triple, no quadruple their income, lose weight, stay fit, save more money, and on and on…
But as time passes they forget about them.
They make a list, tuck it away and never look at it again.
And then another year goes by and they’re at it again, make a list, and …. 2 weeks later they forget all about it.
Well, today my kid is back to school, actually she’s starting 1st grade, and as I’m driving her in the morning I see all those school buses and a new school year is beginning.
So I thought, why do we have to wait until Jan. 1st to set some goals, 2008 isn’t over just yet.
As far as I’m concerned today is the absolutely perfect time to revisit what you’ve set for yourself and give it a push to finish off the year with a bang.
We have less than 120 days in the year, so why not set and achieve some real goals for this year.
By the way IF you do this, it will put you in the top 3% of the people in the world who actually set goals.
This is something I like to do once a quarter.
First of all it gives me an opportunity to review my progress, then it allows me to refocus my thinking, my energy and keep my conscious mind on track, while at the same time reinforcing this programming in my subconscious mind.
I went ahead and recorded an audio for you so you don’t miss a thing.
Go ahead and listen to the audio as I will walk you through the process and the specifics of how you can have set yourself up to have this be your best year, in just 120 days.
You might want to get out a sheet of paper so you can jot things down and when you hear some ideas that inspire you or things you want to add to your goal list make sure you note them.
Feel free to share your comments as you begin to put this into practice.
And have your greatest year in the next 120 days.
Best,
Vitaly
August 11th, 2008 Vitaly Grinblat
Can we really benefit from negative thoughts?
Absolutely.
Many self-help books and courses talk about removing negative thoughts, eliminating them, and I completely agree with that. However, negative thoughts and emotions play a very important role in your life. Without them progress would be very difficult.
Here’s a little twist.
You see, whenever you’re feeling negative, what that means is that you’re not in alignment with what you really desire.
Since we attract what we feel, the minute you catch yourself feeling negative, you know that in that moment you’re attracting the opposite of what you want.
This is good. Because most people have no idea what’s going on in their life, but if you understand what happens during the time you’re feeling this way, you can change your point of attraction.
Negative thoughts and feelings guide you and let you know that you need to correct your course.
Of course after that you want to remove the thought/feeling and replace it with what you do want.
As you start catching yourself thinking negative, you should congratulate yourself because you’re now aware of your thinking, and when you become aware you start gaining control.
As you notice that negative thought or a limiting belief start surfacing up, you know that you’re now attracting the opposite of you what you want and it’s time to change your thoughts.
Now isn’t that a better way to handle it, then to beat yourself up over the fact that you’re not positive 24 hours a day?
Plus it’s really impossible to stay positive all the time. Whether we feel positive or negative, they’re just signals that we’re receiving about what we’re attracting at any given moment.
July 25th, 2008 Vitaly Grinblat
Here’s a very profound idea about marketing your business.
This one could make all the difference in your response and how people perceive you.
Before I share it with you, I assume you do want to grow your business and your bottom line, right?
Let me illustrate it for you out of my own file cabinet of experiences in sales.
In my previous life, I had to call a lot of prospects and set up appointments to go see them.
Now who likes getting a phone call at their home from a sales person. And then having that sales person come to their house and sit there trying to sell them something (even if it’s good for them and they need it).
So I had to always make it look like NOT a sales situation. Of course when I start talking to them about coming over and meeting with them to discuss their financial situation, they knew that it was going to be a sales call, BUT I always made it look like a very casual experience.
On the phone I would tell them that I’d like to pop by and share some ideas with them. Same ideas that I shared with their friends who thought that you would benefit tremendously by taking a look at it.
When I came over, I always dressed business casual, never a suite. That’s a big no, no. Someone in a suite with a briefcase, has SALESMAN written all over him.
I would talk to them about them and their kids. I’d ask them some questions about their goals and dreams, to make them very comfortable with me, and only then I would go into some of the details of what I do.
I would do everything in my power to make it look like I’m not there to sell them anything.
Let’s go back to your marketing.
Look at your marketing material, however you market. Whether it’s a sales letter, a website, or an ad in the paper.
Does it have SALESPERSON written all over it? Does it smell like someone trying to sell you something?
The minute they sense sales, they’re gone forever never to return again. And you’ve just wasted an opportunity to tell your story.
So look over your pieces, and see how can you make it stand out, and yet be inviting and non-threatening.
Don’t worry about making huge claims and big promises. Everyone does that. Be different and unique.
Make it look valuable.
